Showing posts with label stress release exercise. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stress release exercise. Show all posts

Friday, July 2, 2021

Six reason of negativity and it's solution


Outside influences can affect our energy state. Positive energy is absolutely contagious, but so is negative energy. Energy also has a multiplier effect. If we are in good spirits and in a positive state of mind, we’re much more likely to remain in this state. But then again, the same applies for negative energy. This is why it’s so important to vigilantly guard ourselves from being sucked into a “vortex” of negativity.


Unfortunately, a cycle of negativity happens to nearly everyone. The great thing is that we can all learn to clear this energy. 


I am sharing few point when people create negativity, and I am sharing the simple solution to clear it, so that it will help everyone.

Vivek


1. Constant complaining when in a certain situation


Some people always complain, those who complain always suffer.


Solution: Get out of the situation ASAP

Simply put, complaining drains our positive energy and replaces it with negativity. Refuse to become absorbed by the complaining of other people. If we find ourselves complaining, we should refuse to engage in such thoughts.


2. Consistent feeling of being angry or on-edge


When anger becomes a persistent emotion, it’s detrimental to our physical and mental health. The stress caused by feeling angry or on-edge surpasses that of any other emotion. Therefore, it’s important to either eliminate or minimize anger through taking some kind of action.

Solution: Practice deep breathing, if you take breath for navel you can't be in that state, to create the energy of anger we need fast breathing, so always focus on your breath.


3. Persistent feelings of anxiety and/or depression


Feelings of anxiety and depression are among the most two commonly reported symptoms in the world. Physicians are seen by people suffering from anxiety and depression more than all other illnesses combined. Constantly feeling anxious or depressed is a force of negative energy that needs to be addressed.


Solution: Practice mindfulness meditation, live in present moment. Forget past, and future just be in the now.


4. Interactions with people becoming difficult or exhausting


When we’re in a negative cycle, normal interactions with other people can become mentally, physically and emotionally taxing. This is because we’re too wrapped up and engaged with our own inner monologue to accommodate the added stimulus brought forth through conversation.


Solution: Practice active listening, It can effectively replace the underlying anxiety encountered by making us more prepared to be aware. 


5. Increasingly becoming more critical of self and others


Negativity has a deviously deceptive effect on how we view ourselves and others. The simple explanation is that negative energy requires a release and since we’re often among others, people become easy targets. When we’re alone, this negative energy can often cause us to critique ourselves down to every last perceived flaw.

Solution: Recognize and then stop

As with so many other forms of negative energy, criticism has a multiplying effect. When we’re actively criticizing ourselves or others, we’ll often just function off auto-pilot, effectively ceding control. In recognizing and labeling the presence of criticism, we take back this control. We can then refuse to engage with the fruitless thoughts and emotions that criticism summons.


6. Seeking isolation more frequently


When caught up in a negative energy cycle, many people have the desire to isolate themselves from loved ones. While some alone time is healthy, it’s not healthy to experience a sudden desire for seclusion, especially if this was not the case before.


Solution: Knowing that people care, and feel the oneness with everyone. Understanding, that all are human and everyone have same emotions.


Vivek

Infinite love

Infinite wisdom.

Saturday, June 26, 2021

The T- Bar Exercise

SECRET HEALING TECHNIQUE SERIES-9


Sharing with you today a wonderful exercise to create a balance in your life. This exercise will help you to check and balance your psychical, mental and emotional body. Even you can balance your aura too. You can Explore all previous article of my Secret healing technique series in my blog. All this technique can be practiced by anyone who doesn't know about Healing too.



The T- Bar Exercise


The letter "T" correlates to balance scales in this exercise, the objective, restoring balance to your brain and your life. Being out of balance can be due to substance abuse, a chemical imbalance in the brain, other illness, fatigue, or something else that is affecting you on an emotional, physical, and/or spiritual level of awareness. 


The T-Bar is also like a seesaw - mechanically a lever and pendulum. Pendulums take us to clocks, time, or physical reality. The object is to create balance in time. 


The Exercise


1-Close your eyes. 


2-Visualise the letter T. 


3-Is the horizontal bar balanced? 


4-If it is balanced, then all is well. 


5- If it is out of balance, try to envision it balanced. If you cannot balance it in your mind, then you must look further to see what is wrong. 


6-Note which side is lower, giving you a hint as to what needs to be brought into balance now. 


7- The right side goes to the creative, emotional, feminine, spiritual, and higher chakras. Left is for Logic, things done with the logical mind, often seen as the masculine side. Once you determine what is wrong, then you can seek balance the "T" or continue on as things were. 


8- You can also focus on a specific topic or person ... then check your T-Bar to see how they are affecting your balance. 


9- You can look at your T-Bar whenever .... It is simple, and does not involve Meditation or Yoga techniques, though combined with them can bring clarity as Yoga balances brain chemistry. 


10- As with auras, your T-Bar will change based on the patterns of your experiences and thoughts. 


Reality is nothing more than consciousness. The human brain is an electrochemical machine forever viewing streaming consciousness for experience and interpretation. It is all about balancing polarities.


Vivek

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Infinite wisdom

Monday, June 21, 2021

BLUE COLOUR RELAXATION TECHNIQUE

Do you know that colour Blue causes the brain to release the relaxing hormones?


Blue is the color of relaxation and peace. You should imagine blue when you need to relax and unwind. Blue is good if you are suffering from insomnia. It can also be visualized when you need to clear the mind or when you are having problems thinking clearly. 


Color Breathing Exercise For Stress Relief 

                     ๐Ÿ•‰️ ๐Ÿง˜‍♀️๐Ÿ•‰️


Color breathing is a simple stress reducing activity that may be quickly learned. In short, involves mentally picturing/meditating on a color that represents how you want to feel or and what you want to let go in your life (stressor). 


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One starts by getting in a comfortable position and allowing oneself to relax.

๐Ÿ”ท Breathe comfortably and deeply but keep the rhythm of your breathing natural

and relaxed. 

๐Ÿ”ท Remember, your exhale should be twice as long as your inhale (2seconds:4 seconds). 

๐Ÿ”ท Now imagine yourself bathed in the color of your choice.

๐Ÿ”ท As you breathe, imagine the color entering your solar plexus (above the abdomen) and spreading throughout your whole body. As you breathe out visualize the complementary color leaving your body. 


Try this beautiful technique and give me your divine feedback.


Vivek

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Friday, May 21, 2021

LAGOM lifestyle to create a balanced life


To create a happy and balanced life, Bring Lagom lifestyle in your life.

What is Lagom?

"Not too little. Not too much. Just right."

Lagom the latest lifestyle trend to come from Sweden. Lagom is to Sweden, what Hygge ( Check my previous article on Hygge ) is to Denmark. Loosely translated it means 'just the right amount'.

Lagom isn't something you can do, it's a way of living. Lagom is a way of thinking, it affects your day to day life and you learn to live in moderation. Lagom is about being content, not having too much or too little, not being fussy or pretentious and being content with what you have. 

Simple ways to bring lagom into your life

1- Don’t force yourself to be happy

A study at Berkeley in California monitored individuals who said happiness was their main goal and found that they were more likely to feel lonely. Sometimes you need to allow happiness to come naturally, rather than pursuing it.

2- Contribute to something greater than yourself

Find a way to give back to your community by volunteering for a local project, helping a friend or needy one.

3- Take regular breaks

Make sure you take a few breaks even on busy days. You’ll work better when you’re refreshed – especially if you’ve had coffee or tea break.

4- Learn to be contented

Finding inner contentment can be as simple as doing something you love, such as singing or playing a musical instrument. “Having a big party is not necessary for happiness, but having a hot drink with a friend could do it,” 

5- Change your way of thinking

Don’t ask yourself: “Can I do better?”. Instead, ask yourself: “Is this good enough?”

6- Reclaim your own time

Swedes like to keep their work life and home life separate – remind yourself of that the next time you’re tempted to stay late at work or check your emails over the weekend.

Vivek

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Sunday, May 16, 2021

Wabi Sabi way of happy living

WABI SABI

Japanese way of living life

There’s no direct English translation to the concept of Wabi Sabi, but in essence it means: beauty in simplicity “Wabi” and tranquil aging “Sabi”. 

When put together, the concept celebrates the pleasure of finding perfection in imperfection. 

Simply, wabi-sabi is everything that modern, media-fuelled culture isn’t. 

It means family dinners over fine dining; one meaningful relationship over a dozen acquaintances; a cracked teacup over fine crystal.

To understand the concept of wabi-sabi better, let’s see how it is applied to the different aspects of life. In true wabi-sabi fashion all it takes to get started – is nothing you don’t already have

RELATIONSHIPS 

Wabi sabi is the beauty of things imperfect, impermanent, and incomplete, the antithesis of our classical notion of beauty as something perfect, enduring, and monumental."

A wabi sabi relationship is one in which you deliberately accept each other where you are—imperfect, unfinished, and mortal.

"Appreciation for imperfections in others, and even in yourself, is the essential wabi sabi frame of mind," A nice quote I have read 'There is a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in.'"

Accepting someone else's faults, rather than taking them on as a project to be fixed, leaves you the time and emotional energy for enjoying that person.

FOOD

"Wabi sabi principles suggest our food should be natural, simple, and prepared from intuition," Making a meal should be a creative, joyful act, not a test you can fail.

Don't just taste flavors but inhale the richness of smells, hear the sounds your food makes, feel the textures (wet, chewy, crunchy) in your mouth. "Part of the wabi sabi approach is training ourselves to appreciate the simplest things in life and using them to engage our senses," Choose dishes, silverware, and cooking utensils with heft and texture to deepen the sensory experience of eating.

BEAUTY

Yes, the beauty of youth is almost universally revered. But in wabi sabi, as in life itself, change is the only constant, and wabi sabi encourages us to embrace it.

"The starting point of cultivating a wabi sabi beauty is to appreciate the process of aging," he says. "Try not to get caught up in wanting to stagnate in one part of your natural progression through life."

True beauty, in a wabi sabi sense, is about taking care of yourself, not turning your face into a blank canvas. If we stop spending the time to spackle over every freckle or cover up every gray hair, we can be more fully engaged with the world—which gives us real charisma.


WORK

"Align your actions and words to your values, and you'll reflect your best self. Authenticity goes a long way toward eliminating power struggles in the workplace," which is probably the most significant thing most of us could do to simplify our lives at the office."Uncover what's distinctive about you as a person and highlight that,".

Vivek 

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Tuesday, May 4, 2021

STEPS TO RELEASE STRESS FROM THE BODY

WHAT IS STRESSING YOU OUT?

WHAT EMOTIONS ARE IN YOUR BODY THAT YOU ARE IGNORING OR DON’T WANT TO FEEL?

HOW CAN YOU CONNECT MORE WITH YOUR BODY?

Do you know Stress can weakens your immunity. Stress is beneficial in the short-term and can be a huge motivational tool. But, when we’re spending the majority of our time feeling stressed. That’s when the damage starts happening. Stress is now a chronic thing. While stress is a normal physical response, chronic stress is damaging to the body in the long run.

Before starting let's understand some science of it. The Autonomic Nervous System (ANS), The part of the nervous system that takes care of breathing, digesting, balancing hormones, organ control…etc. Anything that you don’t consciously influence is regulated by the ANS.

The sympathetic nervous system is the part of the ANS that kicks in during times of stress to help your body fight through it.

Imagine being chased by a lion! You need that stress response for your survival. After the event has passed, your body is back to its normal state. However, when stress is chronic, your body doesn’t know the difference between work stress, financial stress, chronic pain stress, family/relative stress, and ‘running away from a lion – stress’. The response is all the same.

One thing to keep in mind is that the other part of the autonomic nervous system that is responsible for regeneration, and recovery (and healing) is called the parasympathetic nervous system, and it’s mostly shut down because we are on a stress dominant mode.

Our body’s ability to heal, recover, and regenerate properly is suppressed during chronic stress.

This is very important to know and be mindful of. It is your duty to make rest a priority especially during times when you know you’re stressed to help balance your nervous system.

Turning on the healing and recovery switch can be easy. It just demands some practice and more self-awareness

STEPS TO RELEASE STRESS FROM THE BODY

This quick technique will not only release stress from the body but will help you tap into the parasympathetic nervous system.

1-Connect With Your Body

Sit comfortably and start by placing your hands on your belly and start taking deep breaths. You connect more with your body through touch.

2-Tune Into Feeling And Sensations 

•Start scanning each area of your body starting from your feet.

•Sometimes, just tuning in will make you feel all the feelings you weren’t aware of a minute ago.

•You may notice how you’re holding your breath…how your shoulders are tense…how you’re holding your posture. It’s all good. Just be aware of these things.

•Whenever you feel an area that feels tense… pause and connect with it, this is usually where you are experiencing the stress response.

•Start noticing how those areas feel with the current stress response. You just want to observe here and notice if any emotions come up.

This is your first step to focusing back on the body and giving it your full attention.

3- Be Present

Focus your mind on the present only, forget past and future. Focus on each cells of your body and breathe into it. Just observe and be present with it.

4- Follow the breath

By now you will notice that your body is starting to relax naturally. Your shoulders may drop and relax.

You start feeling a sense of calm and peace. You can place your hands on those areas that felt very tense earlier to tune into them a little more (if you can reach them).

Recognize that this is where the stress response happens in the body. Every time you have a stressful moment, you’ll become more aware of it.

5. Slow down your breath


To reach a deeper state of relaxation slow down the exhales. Count to 6 every time you exhale. It will activate your parasympathetic nervous system, and start healing your body.








Monday, March 1, 2021

HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR


How to overcome fear?

Fear is an emotion; it is consequently not amenable to reason. You may therefore fear your friends as well as your enemies, fear the present and past as well as the future; if fear attacks you, it must be destroyed.
You will be interested in knowing how to accomplish this. Reason will not help you at all, because fear is a subconscious thought, a product of the emotions. There must then be some other way.
The way is to awaken the Solar Plexus, get it into action. If you have practiced deep breathing, you can expand the abdomen to the limit. That is the first thing to do; hold this breath for a second or two, then still holding it, draw in more air and carry it to the upper chest, drawing in the abdomen.
This effort flushes the face red. Hold this breath also for a second or two and then still holding this breath, deflate the chest and expand the abdomen again. Do not exhale this breath at all, but, still holding it, alternately expand the abdomen and chest rapidly some four or five times. Then exhale. The fear is gone.
If the fear does not leave you at once, repeat the process until it does. It will not be long before you are feeling entirely normal. Why? Because, in the first place, this breathing effort concentrated at the pit of the stomach affects the great ganglion of the sympathetic nervous system lying exactly opposite, called the Solar Plexus, which largely governs circulation.
The stimulation of the Solar Plexus releases the nerve currents and the renewed circulation re-establishes the muscular control.
Try this and give me feedback.
Vivek
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Saturday, February 20, 2021

HOW TO COME OUT OF DEPRESSION

HOW TO COME OUT OF DEPRESSION,

Yesterday you have read about the symptoms of depression, and lots of people have asked how we come out of this situation. Sharing you today some simple tips that will help you. You can choose anyone of them or follow all. There is lots of technic, but follow what you feel best.
1 - EAT HEALTHIER
There are certain foods that DO help improve your mood. They are:
◆ Chocolate – Yes... chocolate! There’s some science behind the theory that chocolate makes us happy: eating dark chocolate (1.4 ounces of it, to be exact) every day for two weeks reduced stress hormones, including cortisol, in people who were highly stressed, a study done at the Nestlรฉ Research Centre in Switzerland. Dark chocolate contains magnesium, that can help you feel positively good and prevent mood swings. Experts believe it could be thanks to the antioxidants in chocolate. When you do indulge, be sure to account for the 235 calories that 1.4 ounces of chocolate delivers, or you may be stressed to see extra pounds creeping on.
◆ Fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grain, nuts, beans and peas can produce the feel-good amino acid tryptophan, helping you to feel calm and settle into stable condition.
◆ Coconut – When you’re stressed, the scent of coconut may blunt your natural ‘fight or flight’ response, slowing your heart rate. People who breathed in coconut fragrance in a small pilot study at Columbia University saw their blood pressure recover more quickly after a challenging task. The researchers speculate that inhaling a pleasant scent enhances alertness while soothing our response to stress.
◆ Tea – OK, it’s not food but drinking caffeinated black, green or tea may elicit a more alert state of mind, says a study in the Journal of Nutrition. Researchers think theanine – an amino acid present in these tea varieties – may work with caffeine to improve attention and focus. To reap the benefits, the study’s results suggest drinking five to six cups of tea daily, although this may interfear with sleep. Talking of which...
◆ Bananas and whole grain cereal provide B-12 complex vitamins which promote better memory, feeling energetic’
◆ The benefits of omega-3 fatty acids found in salmon, flaxseed, flax oil, fish or squid oil supplements and walnuts are essential fordaily intake.
2 - SLEEP
This should be an obvious one, but a recent study shows that most of us are not getting enough sleep. You need about seven to eight hours of sleep a night, but most of us get about five to six. So go to bed an hour earlier if you can. Those extra minutes can help improve your health.
3- ESSENTIAL OILS
Lavender oil is good for mood disorders. It can calm you, relieving stress and help you to feel relax when going to sleep. Just 5-10 drops of it in your warm bath water or diffuse the same amount of the oil in your bedroom. You can also apply 2-3 drops on your chest, and wrists once a day.
4- EXERCISE
If you are feeling low, put your shoes on, turn on your music and go for a 20 minute brisk walk. It’s been proven that 20 minutes of walking can change your mood. And if you are up for it, turn that walk into a jog. Sweat the badness away.
Exercise can help to build up self- confident and promote self -awareness. It changes negative thoughts about yourselves to a better positive you. After each workout, you will feel self- worth of what you have accomplished. Gradually you began to feel good mentally and physically. You can destress by exercising as it will boost your metabolism, enhance better sleep and better self- image.
5- TELL SOMEONE
This is the most important one. The biggest thing you can do to improve your mental health is talk to someone about how you are feeling. A friend, family member or counsellor if needed. You don’t need to feel the way you do and there are lots of people willing to listen. So do your mind a favour and talk.
6- MEDITATION AND HEALING
You can join meditation and healing session, that will help you really to keep mind, body and soul in balance. Lots of people who are into healing has changed their life, they came out from the negative situation and now transformed their life.

7- CHANTING
Mantra chanting helps to slows down brainwave and creates a deep relaxation and awareness in the body, you can start from any mantra which you feel more connected.
Gayatri mantra, mrityunjay mantra, any sanskrit or buddhist mantra, you can chant.
Sanskrit language create a collaboration with right and left brain and helps to become more aware.
Vivek
Infinite love
Infinite wisdom.

Friday, February 19, 2021

TWELVE THINGS TO DO TO LIVE HEALTHY LIFE

 


TWELVE THINGS TO DO TO LIVE HEALTHY LIFE

Sun Simiao (581‑682 AD), the famous physician, Daoist, and alchemist of the ancient china specifies that one should maintain a serene state of mind by cultivating an attitude of awe and care. He defines this as “the gateway of life and death, the key to rites and good teaching, the cause of existing and perishing, the root of good and bad fortune, as well as the prime source of all aus‑ picious and inauspicious conditions” .
STRESS IS THE ULTIMATE ANTITHESIS TO HEALTH AND LONG LIFE
If awe and care are lost, “the mind will be confused and not cultivated, the body will be hectic and not at peace, the spirit will be scattered, the prana (qi) will go beyond all bounds, and will and intention will be deluded”. This condition, which we now call “stress,” is the ultimate antithesis to health and long life. Awe and care combat it effectively since they are the basis of moral action and virtuous thoughts. They provide great benefit.
MODERATION IS THE WAY TO LIVE HEALTHY LIFE
To live in this mental serenity of awe and care, moreover, one should practice moderation in all aspects of life and avoid overindulgence in food and drink as well as in other sensual and sexual pleasures. Many longevity texts in the middle ages place a great emphasis on mod‑ eration.
HOW TO PRACTICE MODERATION
It is in the format of twelve things to do only a “little” bit at a time. They are
1-Think little, If you think much, the spirit will disperse.
2- Reflect little, If you reflect much, the heart will be labored.
3- Laugh little, If you laugh much, the organs and viscera will soar up.
4- Speak little, If you speak much, the Ocean of Prana (Qi) will be empty and vacant.
5- Enjoy little, If you enjoy much, gall and bladder will take in outside wind.
6- Anger little, If you get angry much, the fascia will push the blood around.
7- Delight little, If you delight much, the spirit and heart will be deviant and unsettled.
8- Mourn little, If you mourn much, the hair and whiskers will dry and wither.
9- Like little, If you like much, the will and qi will be overloaded.
10- Dislike little, If you dislike much, essence and power race off and soar away.
11- Engage little, If you engage yourself much, the muscles and qi‑channels will be tense and nervous.
12- Deal little, If you deal much, wisdom and worry will all be confused.
Vivek
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THE BUTTERFLY HUG

 THE BUTTERFLY HUG

The Butterfly Hug is an easy relaxation technique that can be used anywhere, at any time. It is a great self-soothing tool.
These are tools designed to help alleviate anxiety and calm you in the moment, but are not a replacement for therapy.
The Butterfly Hug is a method of therapeutic intervention to help relax and calm a hyper-aroused self. The Butterfly Hug was developed by two practitioners, Lucina Artigas, M.A., M.T., and Ignacio Jarero, Ed.D., Ph.D., M.T. The Butterfly Hug was taught to survivors of hurricane Pauline in Mexico, in 1998 which demonstrated to be highly effective for helping those during this incredibly devastating time. Following the successful implementation and use, many therapist and theoretical orientations have taken to this successful form on anxiety reduction, primarily those who have suffered traumas.
The practice is actually quite simple and is readily available to everyone, because all you need is yourself! To begin:

HOW TO DO THE BUTTERFLY HUG
  1. Take a deep diaphragmatic breathing to start the process.
  2. Draw awareness to the self, as with any mindfulness practice, pay attention, notice any emotions that are coming up, any physiological indicators and judgments of self and continue to breathe.
  3. Cross your hands over your chest (like you are making a bird shadow puppet) where the wings are resting just below your collar bone. You can hook your thumbs as a place to feel anchored.
  4. Begin slowly tapping, alternating left and right, left and right and continue tapping for 30 seconds to a few minutes if desired and it feels calming and grounding.
  5. Continue to hold awareness with the self, slowing the mind and the body with each breathe, being with any and all emotions that come up.
The Butterfly Hug is a tool designed to help ease anxiety and calm you in the moment, but certainly is not something to be used in lieu of therapy. Try this easy technique anytime anywhere, it will relax you and create a healing effect.
Vivek
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เค•्เคฏा เคญเค—เคตाเคจ เคฐाเคฎ เคจे เคญी เค•ी เคฅी เคคांเคค्เคฐिเค• เค‰เคชाเคธเคจा?

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