Atma namste dear divine soul, Most of us welcome pleasurable experience and resist unpleasant ones, but the mind tends to resist any feeling that's overwhelming or threatening. There are dozens of excellent strategies for not experiencing an unwanted experience or not feeling an unpleasant feelings such as the following, supressing, dissociating, distracting and etc.
Vivek
Do Any of these strategies feel familiar to you? Your willingness to experience resisted experience is the key to clearing up what's in your way. It is the way out of pain and the way back to freedom, health and happiness.
EMBRACING YOUR EXPERIENCE - A KEY ELEMENT IN HEALING
If you allow yourself to experience something fully, it will move through you, complete its purpose, and disappear back into nonexistence. Here is a set of little known rules that can transform your life by eliminating the feeling of being stuck.
1- If you are experiencing or feeling something you don't want to feel, embrace it instead and feel it fully, just as it is. Within sixty seconds, it will disappear completely or change in some way.
2. If the experience disappear, allow it to be gone. If you want it ti come back, you can always re- create it later..
3- If it changes in some wat, feel the new experience fully. Within sixty seconds, it will disappear completely or change in some way.
4- If you want an experience to go away completely, repeat step 3 until the experience is completely gone.
Try this and give me feedback.
Vivek
Infinite love
Infinite wisdom